While you worried about "subliminal messages" in the mass media (music, videos,TV shoes etc) you should be worried about what is and who directly impacting your talk and walk with what is out in the open.
Every little message good or bad influence you some way or another. If your friends always have excuses then you find yourself making excuses. If your friends don't do nothing but start drama and fight people then you may find yourself involved. If you have friends that quit their dreams and always find away to discourage what you are doing because of their fears then guess what you are gonna be influenced too. Sort of like when you want to lose weight and you can't find someone to go to the gym with because everybody got excuses and no one wants to go. If you can't find friends to workout with or build up enough strength to do it on your own then what do you think is gonna happen? You will be a quitter too!
If you only watch TV shows,read blogs, or listen to music that focus only on negative aspects of people and life yet you find it hard to pick up a positive book or listen to a motivational message then you are not living your fullest potential. What you put in your head and heart comes out in your life.
If you complain everyday about different political parties, groups of people, and some things you really can't change then you are spending too much negative energy on the wrong things. If you keep putting out everything you don't like then when will you have the energy to focus on what you do like?
Like this "Duck Dynasty" thing has been a huge blowout and whether you disagree or agree with anything Phil said the fact of the matter is this :It is his opinion. Must we go on and on about someone else's opinions that really does not matter at the end of the day?
Seems like some people get so focused on approval of others that they get distracted and become overly upset when someone disagrees with them or talk about them. Let me tell you the hard truth:
People are gonna talk regardless. You don't need everyone's approval or opinions for that matter! You don't have to have an outrage every time someone lies on you or have something negative to say about you. You don't have to spend the majority to your time answering to people who don't have a say so in your life. You are depleting yourself of the energy you need to make it through the day! You are depleting yourself of the energy you have to prosper and to be happy and healthy. Everyone does not have to agree with you, get along with you, be friends with you, or even like you! Everyone does not have to have your belief system!
You can be happy in life without trying to change how people feel. You have to realize this:
Closed minds and closed mouths don't get fed. If people are close minded forget trying to plead your case. Not worth the energy!
If people are out spreading lies, rumors, or talking about you that is okay too! Forget them and ignore them! Let others believe what they want because at the end of the day they will make up their assumptions anyway!
And if your circle is not helping you grow its okay to get a new one! Screaming "no new friends" is not gonna help you. We need others to help each other grow whether you admit it or not. Love the real ones, love people from a distance who you must put up with(family), and dismiss the fake ones. Life is too short to hold on to negative people and not experience engaging with some of the good people left. They are out there ,but you must get rid of your negative energy attracting other negative people by what you speak and put out to the universe(yes your Facebook posts count too).
As the year comes to an end it is time to spread love and grow. Out with the toxic beliefs,thoughts, and people and in with the new :A happy and healthy you that is aware of what you put in your head and heart and where you spend your energy.
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