"You just need to get out more" "You just need to enjoy yourself more"

 "If you just got out of the house more you wouldn't be in as much pain." "If you just enjoy yourself you won't be as tired or in pain." "Everyone needs time to their self"------->Says the person with no work restrictions, no kids, and no chronic illness.

Why gee I'd love to take advantage of that except it costs money to get a break from your kids. It costs money to take care of myself(buying herbs, vitamins, foods, raising money for medical tests, etc) yet I can't work a "regular" job to pay myself so you know what I do?

Spend hours online looking for new clients and doing the work I was hired to do by the few clients I have in the LITTLE time that I have . Mind you that is  ALL in the midst of tantrums, fights, cooking,cleaning, teaching and caring for kids with chronic pain,fatigue, brain fog, weakness, and 100 other things going on in my body.

So sure if you want me to have a break I will gladly accept donations for a babysitter, cab fare, plus money to go somewhere, a cook, a maid, and money to hang out. I'd love one but until then it's grind time and if I don't at least try I will be way worse off. So in the process I will put myself through more pain TRYING to do what I can since NO one else is gonna take care of me.

You're gonna pay my bills or nah?  You gonna come watch my kids when I'm in too much pain or extreme fatigue to move and when I want to "hang out" or nah? Just asking.

When you tell me what I can do to get better you damn sure better provide some help with the solutions you suggest.Until then I will be overworking myself because I have no other choice.

Believe me. I do everything I can to get better you may not understand it because you think you know it all. You don't know how hard I try. You don't feel what I feel. So thanks for your suggestions but will you be providing for me? I think not.

Thanks for your understanding.


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