Showing posts with label black woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label black woman. Show all posts

Friday, July 10, 2015

They only ask about "morals" when it comes to slut-shaming, homophobia, and Black people fighting back and "distractions"

Ever notice how anytime you mention anything about values and morals in this country not existing anymore the first example a person can bring up is women having sexual freedom(code word :hoes,thots, sluts), and more people "turning" gay and gay people getting married? Black people are "out of control" now ?
Oh Lawd it's so many fags around us! Women not quiet and reserved no more oh no the world is ending!"
Yet they have nothing to say about rape, domestic violence, murder, child abuse, institutional racism, deadbeat parents, and other issues.
It's completely fine to see a video with women twerking around a rapper but noo let a gay guy Twerk "this country has no morals left!"
It is completely fine for a man to sleep with 50 women in his city but if a woman does it she is the neighborhood jump off. "We need more moral women!!!"
It's completely fine for a white person to kill another white person. Won't be on the news or newspaper unless it is a murder suicide. If a white cop kills a white person they almost always get fired or convicted.
Black person kills a black person. Black person gets killed by cop and black people are enraged. Then they say "what were they wearing " well black people kill each other all the time. What about black on black crime!!"
White people burn couches, cars and fights after their football or basketball team loses. Trashing the street and breaking beer bottles. No big deal just mad white people.
Black people rioting over dead black people "look at those Savages! No morals!"
Black man gets an attitude at cop,runs, or remains respectable after getting called a nigger or distracted: gets shot.
White man curses out cop and gets violent : A warning or fine .Live to see another day
Understand this: Nothing is "immoral" until a woman does what men do, black people do what white people do, and gay people do what straight people do.
Never mind those 64,000 Black girls and women missing in America. Look there is a guy wearing a dress and makeup!
Oh look a woman who loves her body,is not dependent on a man and has sexual freedom
Oh look a Black person not afraid of what white people think and stands up for themselves!
Oh look a black person that appreciates their blackness! How dare they want dolls,emojis, and movie characters to look like them! How dare they wear their natural hair!
Let's talk shit about them! ‪#‎distractions‬ ‪#‎CreWisdom‬

Everyone is allowed to share their pain EXCEPT BLACK WOMEN

Blog post anyone?
People have a hard time seeing others acknowledge their painful experiences. Especially when it comes to women of color.
I realize that when Black women decide to empower themselves by saying "I'm strong" or "I won't allow a man to walk over me" it's called "man bashing".
If we point out misogyny and sexism as it relates to Black culture Non-colored people always say "well all women go through this"
Acknowledging that intersections exist is so difficult for them and if you happen to focus on Black women's experiences it must mean we are excluding others and ignoring others pain.
Why have we got to a place that if we FOCUS in on OUR experiences that it is called not caring about other races of women?
Why is caring about ourselves so "hateful" to you? Why is empowering ourselves so hateful to you?
It's the people who are supposed to be open-minded who deny Black experiences and want to get rid of the whole race thing so they won't have to a. lose their white friends b. They believe acknowledging racism is enabling to black people c. If they are not black they want to ignore racism and intersections because any systems of oppression are supposedly imaginary.
It's funny how everyone is allowed to express their pains and frustrations, EXCEPT Black women and people.
Everyone is allowed to praise their culture and acknowledge history in their culture, EXCEPT Black people.
Everyone is allowed to point the finger at Black women and how we supposedly ruin the world, but the moment Black women acknowledge that he has been abused or felt defeated at some time at the hands of a Black man she is "bitter" or "man hating"
Then you want to convince me that race is just a biological construct
So this means all races, black people included are biologically motivated to ignore Black voices pointing out racism, sexism, misogyny, and homophobia "playing the victim" and countering it with "black people aren't the only ones who experience that" when that is obvious.
I'm not buying it. People are socialized to hate Blackness, Black people included.
Call me "divisive" , "man hating", and "race baiting" all you want I SEE what the hell is going on.
If acknowledging ways that racism, sexism, and misogyny affects everyone and focusing on marginalized groups offend you or piss you off or make you feel like others are being ignored then that is YOU with your faulty thinking.‪#‎CreWisdom‬.